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First of all, do not get too comfortable by the title of this piece. As a sissy you should always strive for perfection, but you will always have more to learn in order to serve better. If you remember this you will continually improve and maybe be the "best" sissy, but never the perfect sissy. After many years of dabbling with being a sissy i have been very fortunate the last couple of years in being able to serve Mistress. She has advanced my servitude immensely and I am getting the best sissy training imaginable. Even though I have learned a tremendous amount over the last years, I still have so much more to achieve in order to approach the perfect sissy level. Being a perfect sissy starts with one basic but critical piece - you must desire to be a perfect sissy! This sounds simple, and you are probably thinking to yourself, "Why would I be reading this if I didn't want to be a sissy?" Believe me, there are many who have superficial thoughts about service as a sissy, but never make a sincere commitment to serve. Remember, servitude as a sissy is not for your pleasure. It is for the pleasure of your Mistress/Master, and you must be committed to providing your Mistress pleasure without regard to your own. This does not mean that you will not be receiving any pleasure - quite the contrary. Mistress on many, many occasions has given me the most intense enjoyment I can imagine. However, She does so when and how SHE wants to. Hopefully you now have a grasp of the basic concept of serving as a sissy. Call it the "sissy attitude" if you want. Now, let's move on to some other building blocks towards you becoming the perfect sissy. As with any relationship of this type, you and your Mistress/Master must begin the relationship with some ground rules like limits as to things that you absolutely can't or won't do. Be sure to get all of this covered and your Mistress will be understanding because She doesn't want either of you to be unhappy in the middle of a sissy service session. An open discussion is required. As in all relationships, communication is key! |